Sunday, July 1, 2012

A Day at an NGO- First Experience


"A night at the call centre", I thought was the most unexpected night that could happen in one’s life. But, recently I have realized that not only night, but also a day at some place that one had thought in life can be of a similar kind. Dreams and aspirations play a vital part in one’s life, if you just dream, it’s not necessarily vital but aspirations add life blood to dreams.
Some thing of a similar kind happened with me last Saturday. I had been dreaming about becoming an Air Force Pilot, some times a Teacher and sometimes even Miss. World, but they only had images in my eyes, not in my mind. I never aspired to become the same, so I never became serious at becoming the same. Today that’s the only reason I am working with an IT co. and not with the Indian Air Force or some convent school nor am I doing ramp modeling for Lakme India Fashion Week. But, there was one thing that had been in my conscience since my childhood days.
It was even carried in my adulthood and still prevails inside me till date. Apart from the person I am and the way I lead my life, I had always aspired to some or the other ways do something for the sake of others. Those others, who don’t belong to my breed neither, are they my blood relatives, nor do I have any other friendly relation to them. Some unknown figures that I am connected, only for the sake of humanity. The bond that every human shares and wants to be shared, in case of need.
I had always wanted to help some needy people around me. I never left any chance in my life to fulfill those requirements that had been in my hands. But, last Saturday, I got an official chance to visit an NGO , in Jaipur , itself. It had been the beginning of my aspiration, to do something for the needy.  It was my first experience at such a place. I had no idea of how and what had to be done. Its an NGO that takes care and trains such students, who couldn’t continue their normal studies, due to either family problems or life constraints.
One of my immediate junior works there and I got this golden opportunity just because her. Firstly, I thank her to make me meet such wonderful folk of people. I was invited as a guest lecturer, for throwing lights on Retail segment of business world and certain soft skills training as well.
As I entered the room I could watch all the faces light up in anticipation, for learning something new from a new face. They all stood up together and I could feel the respect they had for the GURU, who would teach them, the right path for their bright future, a head. I started with a small dot that I drew on the white board and invited ideas about what they thought about it. They answered well, but not what I actually wished to extract. They found a simple dot, a full stop and point in it, but I wanted them to realize the beginning of a line from that point. Explaining them the other side of the coin was great as they were paying full attention to every word, I spoke.  
I poured out whatever I felt could had helped them. They were full of questions and curious to know about things, happening around. Giving them lessons about soft skills, I could feel what they most feared was about their communication skills. I gave them the tips and tricks to improve them without much effort and pain. The satisfaction they had on their face, released a real strength in me. I felt as good as it was the best thing I had done in ages.
Concluding the class, I brought them back to the dot that I had drawn on the white board in the very beginning, but this time I could see the changed angle of their minds. At last some one asked me about my introduction, it was then that I realized that I was so involved with them, that I hadn’t even introduced myself.
The best thing what I loved was that ,they were not only keen about themselves, but equally respected and wanted to know the person , who was taking care of them. I enjoyed being with them and would definitely move forward if I get a chance to associate with them or any other NGO as well in future.
This was my aspiration, and I got to achieve it more. This was just a mere beginning. There is also a request for all to kindly find some time from your busy schedule for betterment of all such things that really need an aid.
You never know that a moment spared for them could add millions of happy moments to their lives ……..

“HOPE AND WISH ALL SUCH FACES TO CARRY SMILES ON THEIR FACES AND SUCEED D MOST IN LIFE”