Kehte h failure is the key to success, but kisi ne ye socha h k zada key marne se to khilona bhi kharab ho jata h to insaan kya cheez h. Bachpan se chabhi wale khilone se khelna acha lagta tha , but kabhi socha hi nia tha ke khud hi chabhi wala khilona baan jana padega. Kabhi teacher ne to kbhi friends ne, kabhi family to kabhi formally apne aap hi chabhi bharni padegi. School college ke chik chik se bahar nikle to boss k liye khilone ban gaye.
Life ki to watt lagi rai. Kabhi acha hota to next step pr pehle hi ready rehte the k kch na kch to bura hone hi wala h. Wo kehte h na k har raat k baad subah h par har subah k bad raat bhi to h , ye kyn bhul jaate h sab.Nature kabhi apne laws nai todta chahe wo insane ke liye hi kyn na ho. Jab zindagi milti h kitni khushi se hamara Happy wala B’day manate h. Jb 1 saal pura hota h uski khushi alag but kabhi ye nai sochte k yaaro hm chakraviyu k dwar me pravesh kr chuke h. Duniya k jhol jhal ka premium show start hogaya h.
Bachpan ke roothne manane se shuruwat to sai lgti h but jaldi hi kisi flop movie k script jaise lagne lgti h. Bachpan jaane se pehle hi adolescence aajati h and we start caring about our looks, boys ya girls k beech most attraction seeking element jo banna hota h. Phir aati h girlfriend/boyfriend stuff, jo bachi khuchi life ki watt lagane k liye more than enough hoti h. Ek dusre ko impress krne k chakker me khud ko bhul hi jaate h. kuch work out krti h to kch to nightmares ban k reh jaati h, jo bhulaye nai bhulta. Jo bachkar shaadi k stage tk pahuchti h wo already shaadi ka laddoo hoti h, to kch kehne k zarurat hi nai. Aj k dates itne economic h k time bachane k liye log ek din me do - do dates bhi plan krte h. Career k C ka pata nai but BF& GF hona to style statement h. Bache khuche jo career k bare me sochte h unko book worm, pakau ,aur pata nai kya -kya bolkar demotivate kr dete h, jaise bechare ne to koi paap hi kr diya ho. Achi baat ye h k har koi apni life ka kch na kch to kr hi leta h ,aur phir aati h “Boss Is Alwaz Right “ wali situation. Aisa lgta h mano hum to pay slip wale ghode aur gadhe h, jo boss k directions pr race laga rahe h. Agar galti se kbhi directions follow nai ki to ready raho k next Atom bomb to apke hi sir pr exclusive girega. Kabhi appraisal ka locha to kabhi remuneration ka, kabhi colleage ka ditch to kabhi duniya bhar ka hitch. Puri zindagi nikal jaati h but ye decide nai hota k jine k liye kaam kiya ya kaam karne k liye jiye the?? Jb old days aate h to dimag ye sochne pr majbor hojata h k jb jawani me kisi ne nai pucha to budhape me to swayam bhagwan Shri krishan Sudama k liye prakat nai honge ;ya koi bedtime stories wali kahani thode sach hojayegi. Kch bachi khuchi savings and pensions k sahare khud ko self dependent batate h but ye kyn bhul jaate h k hamare life ka hr minute kisi na ki pr depended hi hota h. Finally kismat achi rai to old days gold ban jaate h warna to…….
Finally kabr me pair latka kr baithte h, kuch home to kch 2nd innings home me. Kch masti marte h to kch khud marte rehte h. Fir finally end aajati h kch happy to kch is dialogue pr fit baithti h k-“ Har kahani K Ending Happy Nai Hoti”.
But is pure life cycle me hm ye kyn bhul jaate h k hmare life k base kya tha? Hr kisi k birth ka reason hota h to kyn hm uske liye nai jeete. Kehte h insaan jo krta h apni khushi k liye krta h, but in due course wo sbki khushiyon k aage apni khushi bhool kyn jaata h yr?? kisi ka karz nai liya to aise behave kyn karte h jaise world bank se loan liya ho wo bhi double interest rate pr. Zindagi na milegi doobara dekhe k baad bhi ; 3 Idiots k jhatke kam kyn pad jaate h. Kyn multi-directional expansion ki jagah hm unidirectional focus nai krte. Life ek baar milti h yaaro , apni khusiyon k liye jeeyo ise aur apne sharto pr. Facebook chat se nikalkr kabhi khud se bhi chat kr lo shayad kch meaning full nikal aaye. Success & Failure to most apt pair h, unki shadi k guest to banna hi padega but dishes hm apni selction k enjoy kr hi skte h na?? Anywaz , “All the Best and Leave The Rest” ,k naare ko hamesha yaad rakho and move on guys………….
“Love yourself and love your life, rest will fall in love with you themselves………………………………………..”
